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Showing posts with label stereotypes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stereotypes. Show all posts

Sunday, 29 November 2009

The Woman Racket


I finished this interesting book by Steve Moxon last night and have posted a review on Amazon - which has not yet appeared. Overall I thought it was well written though the last few chapters were light on references and heavy on his own opinions. I have no problem with pornography as such though I must admit I didn't like his attitude that all pornography - including child pornography - is harmless. According to him punishing people for possessing child pornography is tantamount to punishing them for 'thought crime'. He seems to have missed the point that such photographs show children being abused and that a crime has to be committed in order to produce the pictures in the first place. Recent court cases have shown how child abuse can happen anywhere at any time.

I didn't like his attitude to sexual harassment laws either. He seems to be saying that normal banter between co-workers is what's ending up in the courts and people ought to grow a thicker skin and just put up with it. I have never had any problems myself dealing with unwanted attentions or offensive language at work and I must say the vast majority of men seem to have no problem in knowing where to draw the line. The legal cases I've read about are mainly where people have expressed dislike of what was going on and attempted to stop it and no one's paid any attention and just carried on.

His whole theory is that men have always been disadvantaged in Western society and women have been pampered and mollycoddled and still expect to be treated better than men. This is not the feminism I grew up with - which was that there needs to be equal opportunities for both sexes in all areas of life. I don't want - and never have wanted - special treatment. Like many male commentators he equates feminism with lesbianism and thinks the word patriarchy is a term of abuse instead of being simply a description of the society in which we live.

As I say an interesting read but giving certain women derogatory nicknames does not serve to enhance his argument, whatever he thinks.

Monday, 23 February 2009

That's two days missed so far . . .

Actually though 2 days in two months is not really that bad. Anyway no point in beating myself up over it. I wasn't feeling marvellous yesterday and couldn't stop coughing, so I went to bed early, then didn't sleep well. Today I'm not coughing as much and at least my throat is pretty well all right now, though I am sneezing and blowing my nose. I went to work today because I didn't feel that bad - not like the last cold I had when I spent two days in bed! Hopefully I'm over the worst of it now.

Stereotypes

I was intrigued tonight coming home on the bus to realise the teenage girl behind me was listening to what sounded like opera on her iPod. I thought it just serves to show that however hard I may try I still put people in pigeon holes - a salutary lesson!